Memorial Day in Lawler 2003

Author’s Note: This is one of my favorite stories from “Depot Street Memories-The Lawler Stories” (available as an e-book on Amazon.com for 3 bucks)

 There were countless patriotic ceremonies conducted throughout the United States this past week. Some attracted dignitaries and politicians who delivered rousing oratories produced by paid speechwriters. Others featured elite military bands, F-16 flyovers, and elaborate stages designed for a television audience.

But not one of them could have been more moving to this northeast Iowa native than the traditional gathering conducted in Lawler—the home of my youth.

My wife Renee and I had driven up from our Des Moines area home on Sunday to celebrate the high school graduation of our niece in Fort Atkinson. That evening I suggested to her that we get up early on Monday, visit the cemeteries of our respective families, and get to Lawler in time for the Memorial Services in the city park.

Although I moved away from the community in 1964 at the age of twenty, there have always been wonderful memories of my childhood there. Many are directly connected to the small piece of ground just north of the tracks next to the lumberyard. There were pick-up baseball and football games with the Scallys, Timlins, McGreeveys, and Leonards. Ice skating on cold January evenings when they flooded the area for us. A berry tree on the east end that bore fruit for the taking. And the Memorial Day parade in which soldiers from World Wars I and II and Korea marched from the Legion Hall three blocks west on Main Street to the corner with the fire bell by the lumberyard. They turned north for one-half block and entered the park. The ex-military men seemed old to me then because I was so young.

My friends and I eagerly anticipated the 21-gun salute so we could dive for the empty shell cases. Paul Junko always got there first and got the most. The rest of us begrudgingly respected his courage and timing.

And even though I never fully understood the full significance of the pageantry, I knew instinctively at some level that it was important for me to be there. Then a simple request was made by a teacher, Alice Costigan, during my freshman year in high school. “Bill, will you recite In Flanders Field in the park on Memorial Day?”

“Of course,” I agreed. “I would be honored to do so.”

And I have never taken the day for granted since. Too old to dive for shells and too young to understand the horrors of war—I memorized that wonderful poem about the dead asking to be remembered by the living, and it somehow changed my life. For the first time I really began to appreciate the sacrifices that have been made. Military men and women who survived and those who did not. Lives were given so that my family and friends could live in a free society. In New York or Los Angeles or Washington, D.C. or Chicago. Or Lawler, Iowa. And it moved me in a way that I had not been moved before.

Until this past week, thirty-nine years have passed since I last experienced the ceremony in person. However, every year I have thought of and thanked God for them—the brave soldiers, sailors, marines, and airmen from Lawler.

Going back might have been one of those letdowns that occur when you return decades later.  The creek bed that’s not quite as wide or deep as you remembered. The buildings not as tall. The people not as friendly.

But it was not a disappointment. Rather, I was quietly overwhelmed with emotion as the veterans—who didn’t seem quite so old now that I am 59—marched west on Main Street. The building where they congregated to prepare for the march is no longer known as the Legion Hall. The fire bell on the corner has long since been dismantled. But they still marched with pride and dignity. With a sense of purpose. I watched as my cousin Jack McKone carried one of the flags. I heard the Turkey Valley band play God Bless America. And I stood there with a lump in my throat as they turned north at the west end of the lumberyard for one-half block and entered the park. Men, women, and children stood with hands over hearts, each bearing secret thoughts and memories of their own.

And then a young man stood on the bandstand overlooking the hushed assembled and began to recite, “In Flanders Field the poppies blow…beneath the crosses row on row…”

I thought of Alice Costigan and Paul Junko and soldiers and sailors and marines and airmen. And days in the park as a child. And more recent wars in Vietnam and Kuwait and Iraq.

As he finished the poem, tear drops unashamedly fell down my face. At that moment there is no place in the world I would rather have been on a beautiful sun-lit morning than in Lawler, Iowa.

On Memorial Day.

(Published in the New Hampton Tribune – June 6, 2003)

and

(Published in The Draft Horse Journal – Spring 2004)

Author’s Note: This is one of my favorite stories from “Depot Street Memories-The Lawler Stories” (available as an e-book on Amazon.com for 3 bucks)

Memorial Day in Lawler 2003
There were countless patriotic ceremonies conducted throughout the United States this past week. Some attracted dignitaries and politicians who delivered rousing oratories produced by paid speechwriters. Others featured elite military bands, F-16 flyovers, and elaborate stages designed for a television audience.
But not one of them could have been more moving to this northeast Iowa native than the traditional gathering conducted in Lawler—the home of my youth.
My wife Renee and I had driven up from our Des Moines area home on Sunday to celebrate the high school graduation of our niece in Fort Atkinson. That evening I suggested to her that we get up early on Monday, visit the cemeteries of our respective families, and get to Lawler in time for the Memorial Services in the city park.
Although I moved away from the community in 1964 at the age of twenty, there have always been wonderful memories of my childhood there. Many are directly connected to the small piece of ground just north of the tracks next to the lumberyard. There were pick-up baseball and football games with the Scallys, Timlins, McGreeveys, and Leonards. Ice skating on cold January evenings when they flooded the area for us. A berry tree on the east end that bore fruit for the taking. And the Memorial Day parade in which soldiers from World Wars I and II and Korea marched from the Legion Hall three blocks west on Main Street to the corner with the fire bell by the lumberyard. They turned north for one-half block and entered the park. The ex-military men seemed old to me then because I was so young.
My friends and I eagerly anticipated the 21-gun salute so we could dive for the empty shell cases. Paul Junko always got there first and got the most. The rest of us begrudgingly respected his courage and timing.
And even though I never fully understood the full significance of the pageantry, I knew instinctively at some level that it was important for me to be there. Then a simple request was made by a teacher, Alice Costigan, during my freshman year in high school. “Bill, will you recite In Flanders Field in the park on Memorial Day?”
“Of course,” I agreed. “I would be honored to do so.”
And I have never taken the day for granted since. Too old to dive for shells and too young to understand the horrors of war—I memorized that wonderful poem about the dead asking to be remembered by the living, and it somehow changed my life. For the first time I really began to appreciate the sacrifices that have been made. Military men and women who survived and those who did not. Lives were given so that my family and friends could live in a free society. In New York or Los Angeles or Washington, D.C. or Chicago. Or Lawler, Iowa. And it moved me in a way that I had not been moved before.
Until this past week, thirty-nine years have passed since I last experienced the ceremony in person. However, every year I have thought of and thanked God for them—the brave soldiers, sailors, marines, and airmen from Lawler.
Going back might have been one of those letdowns that occur when you return decades later. The creek bed that’s not quite as wide or deep as you remembered. The buildings not as tall. The people not as friendly.
But it was not a disappointment. Rather, I was quietly overwhelmed with emotion as the veterans—who didn’t seem quite so old now that I am 59—marched west on Main Street. The building where they congregated to prepare for the march is no longer known as the Legion Hall. The fire bell on the corner has long since been dismantled. But they still marched with pride and dignity. With a sense of purpose. I watched as my cousin Jack McKone carried one of the flags. I heard the Turkey Valley band play God Bless America. And I stood there with a lump in my throat as they turned north at the west end of the lumberyard for one-half block and entered the park. Men, women, and children stood with hands over hearts, each bearing secret thoughts and memories of their own.
And then a young man stood on the bandstand overlooking the hushed assembled and began to recite, “In Flanders Field the poppies blow…beneath the crosses row on row…”
I thought of Alice Costigan and Paul Junko and soldiers and sailors and marines and airmen. And days in the park as a child. And more recent wars in Vietnam and Kuwait and Iraq.
As he finished the poem, tear drops unashamedly fell down my face. At that moment there is no place in the world I would rather have been on a beautiful sun-lit morning than in Lawler, Iowa.
On Memorial Day.
(Published in the New Hampton Tribune – June 6, 2003)
and
(Published in The Draft Horse Journal – Spring 2004)

Author’s Note: This is one of my favorite stories from “Depot Street Memories-The Lawler Stories” (available as an e-book on Amazon.com for 3 bucks)

 

Memorial Day in Lawler 2003

There were countless patriotic ceremonies conducted throughout the United States this past week. Some attracted dignitaries and politicians who delivered rousing oratories produced by paid speechwriters. Others featured elite military bands, F-16 flyovers, and elaborate stages designed for a television audience.

But not one of them could have been more moving to this northeast Iowa native than the traditional gathering conducted in Lawler—the home of my youth.

My wife Renee and I had driven up from our Des Moines area home on Sunday to celebrate the high school graduation of our niece in Fort Atkinson. That evening I suggested to her that we get up early on Monday, visit the cemeteries of our respective families, and get to Lawler in time for the Memorial Services in the city park.

Although I moved away from the community in 1964 at the age of twenty, there have always been wonderful memories of my childhood there. Many are directly connected to the small piece of ground just north of the tracks next to the lumberyard. There were pick-up baseball and football games with the Scallys, Timlins, McGreeveys, and Leonards. Ice skating on cold January evenings when they flooded the area for us. A berry tree on the east end that bore fruit for the taking. And the Memorial Day parade in which soldiers from World Wars I and II and Korea marched from the Legion Hall three blocks west on Main Street to the corner with the fire bell by the lumberyard. They turned north for one-half block and entered the park. The ex-military men seemed old to me then because I was so young.

My friends and I eagerly anticipated the 21-gun salute so we could dive for the empty shell cases. Paul Junko always got there first and got the most. The rest of us begrudgingly respected his courage and timing.

And even though I never fully understood the full significance of the pageantry, I knew instinctively at some level that it was important for me to be there. Then a simple request was made by a teacher, Alice Costigan, during my freshman year in high school. “Bill, will you recite In Flanders Field in the park on Memorial Day?”

“Of course,” I agreed. “I would be honored to do so.”

And I have never taken the day for granted since. Too old to dive for shells and too young to understand the horrors of war—I memorized that wonderful poem about the dead asking to be remembered by the living, and it somehow changed my life. For the first time I really began to appreciate the sacrifices that have been made. Military men and women who survived and those who did not. Lives were given so that my family and friends could live in a free society. In New York or Los Angeles or Washington, D.C. or Chicago. Or Lawler, Iowa. And it moved me in a way that I had not been moved before.

Until this past week, thirty-nine years have passed since I last experienced the ceremony in person. However, every year I have thought of and thanked God for them—the brave soldiers, sailors, marines, and airmen from Lawler.

Going back might have been one of those letdowns that occur when you return decades later.  The creek bed that’s not quite as wide or deep as you remembered. The buildings not as tall. The people not as friendly.

But it was not a disappointment. Rather, I was quietly overwhelmed with emotion as the veterans—who didn’t seem quite so old now that I am 59—marched west on Main Street. The building where they congregated to prepare for the march is no longer known as the Legion Hall. The fire bell on the corner has long since been dismantled. But they still marched with pride and dignity. With a sense of purpose. I watched as my cousin Jack McKone carried one of the flags. I heard the Turkey Valley band play God Bless America. And I stood there with a lump in my throat as they turned north at the west end of the lumberyard for one-half block and entered the park. Men, women, and children stood with hands over hearts, each bearing secret thoughts and memories of their own.

And then a young man stood on the bandstand overlooking the hushed assembled and began to recite, “In Flanders Field the poppies blow…beneath the crosses row on row…”

I thought of Alice Costigan and Paul Junko and soldiers and sailors and marines and airmen. And days in the park as a child. And more recent wars in Vietnam and Kuwait and Iraq.

As he finished the poem, tear drops unashamedly fell down my face. At that moment there is no place in the world I would rather have been on a beautiful sun-lit morning than in Lawler, Iowa.

On Memorial Day.

(Published in the New Hampton Tribune – June 6, 2003)

and

(Published in The Draft Horse Journal – Spring 2004)

Bill Sheridan

Brother Pat’s Big Catch

(This little story comes from Depot Street Memories…The Lawler Stories, available as an e-book on Amazon.Com for $3)

            Patrick was ten years old at the time. Since he is two years and two days older than me, I was eight on that sunny July 1952 afternoon.

            He was fishing off the roof of our back porch on the east side of the house with a cane pole and bare hook, as was his habit. No night crawler was necessary since the nearest body of water was at least three miles from our home. Brother Pat was ‘pretend fishing’ by trying to grab the clothesline near the southeast corner of our house. Whenever successful in the venture, he shouted to the world, “I got one!”

            Luck was on his side as he felt a tug on the line which he had blindly tossed out over the edge of the porch roof. He gave a powerful yank on the fishing line giving out an extra exuberant yelp, “I got one! I got one! I got a really big one!”

            Unfortunately for me, my luck was not as good as Pat’s. I had just stepped down from the porch when I felt a sharp pain in my left ear, and my head inexplicably began to rise.

In a split second, a fish hook was deeply imbedded in my outer ear. Patrick had not caught the clothesline. Patrick had snagged little brother Billy, and tried to haul his 89-pound trophy in until he heard me screaming.

            Now we had a serious problem. Mom was in Waucoma about seven miles away running the family locker business. The nearest doctors were in New Hampton or Fredericksburg, each approximately eight miles away. Even had there been a car at home, no one around was old enough to drive it.

            Fisherman Patrick suddenly morphed into First Responder Patrick and came up with the only solution we could think of, “Let’s go see John Costigan!”

            To this day I have no idea how he knew to do that. But it was the perfect answer. John had been in the service and must have had some training as a medic. We ran the three blocks to his business on the west end of downtown. Pat was terrified and I was crying as blood streamed out of my ear, where the hook remained buried.

            Thank God, John was not concerned about practicing medicine without a license. He calmly took a jackknife out of his pocket and proceeded to extricate the hook from my ear. After wiping the blood off my cheek, he sent both of us home with a recommendation that Pat try his luck next time at Crane Creek rather than in our land-locked back yard.

            As I write this, it’s been fifty-seven years since Pat tried to pull in that prize fish with his non-baited cane pole.

And it’s also been fifty-seven years since I’ve gotten within a hundred yards of him whenever I see a pole in his hands.

I have no desire to be mounted on the wall of his home office.

(Bill Sheridan)

 

 

The Early Bird Romance

(This is a piece I wrote about a dozen years ago and was published in the Des Moines Register. Since this is Valentine’s Weekend, it came to mind)

It was so unexpected. And simple. And beautiful.
I had arrived at the West Des Moines restaurant earlier than anticipated. My wife Renee was driving directly from her job as we had planned to meet another couple for our usual weekly get-together. They had expected to arrive around 6:15 p.m., so it was going to be at least a 20-minute wait for me.
Because I had already read the Des Moines Register earlier in the day, I grabbed some type of “Over 50” paper and asked for the waitress for a booth in non-smoking.
Just as I sat down on the far east side facing toward the front doorway, an elderly couple entered. He was slightly bent and needed a walker to negotiate. I guessed him to be 80-years-old. He wore a dark suit jacket with a sports shirt and no tie. He was slightly balding with otherwise distinguished gray hair.
His wife appeared to be a couple of years younger with grayish-blue hair cut fairly short.
“You’re running late tonight,” joked the waitress.
“Yes,” she said, “almost too late for the early-bird special.”
“Not a problem. You still have plenty of time.”
He smiled at the waitress but said nothing. It was one of those awkward moments when he and I sat facing each other from neighboring booths. She sat with her back to me. Although there was nothing in the “Over 50” paper that appealed to me, I feigned interest so as not to intrude on them.
“I’ll have the steak special,” he told the waitress. Medium-well. And decaf coffee.”
I don’t recall her order, but noticed that they did not say another word until their food arrived. By the time it came, I found myself curiously aware of their presence and felt somewhat of an intruder. Several times he and I made eye contact and I self-consciously looked down at my paper, wishing either that Renee or our friends would soon arrive.
He was left-handed. And he was a fast eater. He rapidly alternated between the salad, the steak, and the baked potato.
I began to wonder about them. What had he done during his working years? A banker? Did he own a small business? Did they come in here every night?
There was no clue because he said not a word as his left hand sought out another piece of medium-well steak.
And without warning, he spoke. It was a question addressed to his partner.
“You know something?”
“What?” she asked.
“I love you.”
“That’s good.”
And his left hand effortlessly grabbed another bite of salad. From that moment on, he said not another word.
Our friends and Renee arrived simultaneously shortly thereafter. We began chatting, and I momentarily forgot about the mystery couple. Until I saw them leave. He clinging to his walker and she gently guiding him with her hand on his arm.
I related the story to my supper-mates as we watched them depart. The story of the medium- well-done steak and the early-bird romance.
And I was happy that I had arrived alone in time to witness it.
(Bill Sheridan)

Binocculars and Mirrors

This is a piece I published several years ago that I hope you enjoy:

An invitation from the administration of my alma mater, Turkey Valley High School of Jackson Junction, Iowa, was such a nice gesture. Perhaps other districts around the nation do it, but I am unaware if that is the case. If they don’t, they should.

On Sunday, May 13, 2012, the graduating TVHS class of 2012 received their diplomas at a wonderful commencement exercise surrounded family and friends.
Also in the crowd sat a contingent of 13 guests, most of whom the graduates had never met; but who shared a common experience with the honorees. Thirteen of us had walked up on that same stage fifty years prior to shake hands with the superintendent and school board president. Thirteen who had not the vaguest idea what might be in store for us in the years ahead. They are only eighteen. We are sixty-eight.

We were members of the second graduating class of Turkey Valley High in 1962, five decades ago. It was one of the first consolidations in the state consisting of five small town schools: Fort Atkinson, Lawler, Protivin, Saint Lucas, and Waucoma. The school was wisely constructed in between all five villages in the unincorporated town of Jackson Junction.
On Mother’s Day 2012, it felt as though our graduation had occurred five years ago rather than five decades ago.
Forty-three of us marched across the stage in 1962. Of that number, six are now deceased.
It was a strangely comforting feeling to sit in our little group, representing those who have died and the living members who either could not make it or made the choice not to attend. The six women and seven men who did are in unanimous agreement that it was time to reflect and be thankful.
I had the good fortune to be located in a chair next to the aisle where I could turn and watch the boys and girls, soon to officially become men and women, march forward to their seats in caps and gowns. As the band played ‘Pomp and Circumstances,’ some grinned from ear to ear while others did their best to hold back tears.
It occurred to me that these beautiful youngsters were looking at life through binoculars. My 1962 classmate friends and I were looking at life through rearview mirrors.
The 2012 graduates were anticipating their first adult paychecks, trade school, or college experience. We were mostly retired. They are on a mission to explore life with a mixture of bravado, enthusiasm, fear, and joy.
We are enjoying grandchildren and coping with the grief of lost friends and loved ones.
We knew, each from own perspective, that there would be much for them to celebrate in the days and years ahead. And that there will be sorrow and pain.
But this was a day to celebrate…for them and for us. As each picked up his or her diploma, it surprised and pleased me to hear many of the same surnames I heard lo those many years ago. These graduates were obviously grandkids or nieces and nephews of my peers.
As we departed from the event, our little contingent exchanged handshakes and hugs. We were genuinely grateful for a chance to share this day with one another. And with the young people who did not know us, but shared a common heritage.
It was a day to cherish, reflect, and remember. And similar to the graduates of 2012–some of us had broad smiles. And some of us shed a few tears.

The class of 2012 looked forward. The class of 1962 looked back.
And to be perfectly candid, I’m not entirely sure who had the better view.
Bill Sheridan

william_sheridan1@msn.com

A Fun Memory From Lawler-Past

This is a little story from “Depot Street Memories-The Lawler Stories” that still makes me smile. Periodically I intend to put one of these on the site or something else that I’ve written, but not part of the book. Hope you enjoy:
The Silent Bells of Mt. Carmel
I would like to be able to blame my buddy, George Timlin, who had a knack for getting me into trouble when we were kids. A year older than me, he always had creative ideas on endeavors that were fun but all too often led to a bad ending.
Truth told, however, this one was on me.
The custodian of Mt. Carmel Catholic Church of Lawler, Iowa in 1955 was Billy Cutsforth. George and I liked Billy because he would allow us to ring the church bells at noon if we were around. To be more accurate—there was only one bell with two ropes. One was responsible for tripping a mechanism to hit a smaller ringer against the bell and the other to emit a louder sound with a bigger ringer. Of course, we had no idea how any of that worked, incorrectly assuming that there were two bells in the tower.
The small bell had a skinnier rope and was to be pulled nine times for something called the “Angelus.” This was immediately followed by the big bell which was to be rung twelve times, and had a rope that was strong enough to lift an 11-year-old up in the air a few feet. It was great fun to pull those ropes and announce to the little town of five hundred that lunch time had arrived.
On this particular day it was my turn to pull the small rope. As 12-year-old George waited his turn for the big one, I began to wonder what would happen if we pulled them both at the same time, but I said nothing to him.
“…six…seven…eight…nine.” I was finished.
My friend began his portion of the gig by dutifully tugging on his rope when I began to say aloud, “I wonder what would happen if…”
But for some reason I chose not to finish my sentence aloud. Instead, in the middle of George’s sixth ring, I simultaneously pulled on the skinny rope.
Bad move!
Suddenly there was silence.
Sickly, deadly silence.
Deafening silence.
Painful silence.
Ear-piercing silence.
I looked at George.
George looked at me.
We both looked to make sure that Billy Cutsforth was not around and did the most logical thing we could think of—run for home as fast as our little legs could take us! I’m not sure what George did when he got to his house, but I hid under my bed and prayed for a miracle.
It has been fifty-two years since the unfortunate incident, so I can’t recall all the sordid details of crime and punishment. I mostly remember that the church bells in Lawler, Iowa did not ring for at least two weeks, my nick-name for the rest of the summer was “Dinger;” and we were never asked to perform that coveted chore again.
I also realize now that if I had not impulsively pulled that rope when I did, I would have missed out on a wonderful adventure to share with my grandsons.
(Bill Sheridan)

Swimming in New Hampton Pool

Not sure whether Lawler kids  still take ‘swimming lessons’ at New Hampton Pool…but here is my experience back in 1954. It was published in the New Hampton Tribune and Des Moines Register in March 2014 almost 60 years after it happened:

High Board Anxiety

With winter soon to be in our rear view mirror and summer hanging on to the heels of spring, I have been thinking about my youth in Lawler; and the thrill of learning new things each season. One such event was the year I learned to swim at the pool in nearby New Hampton.

I am guessing it was circa 1954 when my 10th birthday had arrived. To be able to swim in the ‘deep end’ without supervision, it was necessary to be approved by an instructor, but only  after performing proficiency in floating, back floating, breast stroke and other such tests. There was one, indeed, which required overcoming a phobia ingrained in me: I am afraid of heights.

The east end of New Hampton Municipal Pool at the time had five diving boards. The high board in the middle was approximately 10 feet above the water. To me it might as well have been 100 feet and terrified me! Below it on both sides were middle boards, probably five feet above the water, and on the outside of these, low boards a couple feet above splash down.

I had completed every task except bounding off the high board. The high school girl swimming instructor urged me on, “Don’t worry. You can do this. I’ll be here to catch you the minute you hit the water! It’s okay to jump. You don’t have to dive.”

Frankly, I did not share her optimism. Simply getting to the end of the board was ominous enough, let alone leaping to certain death at the end of that sojourn. “Nope,” I hollered down, “can’t do it.”

“Sure you can, Bill. Run out quickly and leap without thinking. It will all be over in a couple of seconds and you’ll be so proud of what you did. It’s the only thing left to pass your test,” she coaxed.

Buying time, and secretly hoping that the horn signaling the end of swimming lessons would blast, I asked, “Is it okay if I sit down and push myself to the end of the board?”

“That would be fine,” she agreed, much to my chagrin. “Do whatever it takes to get to the end of the board and then drop into the pool. But hurry. We are running out of time today.”

Now the rest of what happened is somewhat cloudy in my mind. After all, it was 60 years ago and sometimes a little difficult to separate historical fact from fiction. But I recall that time stood still, everyone else departed from the pool to watch, and the instructor looked up at me with a conglomeration  of empathy, exasperation, hope, and evil in her eyes.

Now I was doomed. She had agreed to my demands and there was no honorable way out. My buddies, the Timlins, Scallys and Leonards, who could do double back flips off the high board, would surely never let me forget this moment if I chickened out.

So, ever so slowly, I crept out toward the end of the board lifting my rump with my arms. She looks up. I look down. All eyes are on my next move. My white knuckles are velcroed to the diving board. My 10-year-old heart is pounding.

“Jump, Bill. You can do this. Close your eyes and jump!”

I really want to please her and want to get this over with and want my stupid buddies to look the other way, but I’m terrified. And not even half way to the end of the board.

“Come on. Do it. I will be so proud of you.” But for some inexplicable reason she turned her head, just for a split second.

At that very minute I did it! I pushed myself off the side of the board into the depths of the deep end at the east end of New Hampton Municipal Swimming Pool. Seconds later I came up to surface grinning as if I had successfully leapt off the Grand Canyon into swirling rapids.

And she missed it! Well, she probably heard it. But she didn’t see it.

Since I’m  70, she must now be in her mid to late 70s. I wish I knew her name so that I could thank her and apologize for taking so much of her time and energy that sunny summer 1954 morning. Hopefully, she will read this and remember the little red headed kid from Lawler who listened to and heeded her urging. She was able to sign my ‘Certificate of Passing’ to allow me the right to swim alone in the deep end.

One last thing. You might be wondering how many times I’ve since jumped off a high board in the six ensuing decades since that momentous occasion. The answer to that question:  Zero. I’m afraid of heights!

Bill Sheridan

8106 Brookview Drive – Urbandale, IA 50322

515.669.4913 (Cell)                    515.276.4790 (Landline)

Aunt Stella, Santa and the Hot Stove Pipe!

The following is another tale from ‘Depot Street Memories…The Lawler Stories’ (available on Kindle and Nook for 3 bucks) that is one of my favorites. It has to do with my Dad’s sister who was Lawler’s telephone operator back in the 1950s. In it is a story about how she kept my brother Tom and me  from seeing Santa every Christmas Eve…but we loved her anyway!!!

Chapter Twenty-Five

“Number, Please?”

            Anyone reading this born after 1960 will not be able to comprehend the concept of a small town telephone operator. As mentioned in a prior essay, that person in my growing up years in Lawler was my Aunt Stella Shekelton, Dad’s sister.

Her combined office apartment home was in a small cement block building on the south side of Main Street, adjacent to the Lawler Locker on the east and Martin Dergen’s small wooden home on the west. She was widowed before age forty and had what many believe to be the most important job in Lawler.

If there was a fire, she was the first to know. Stella literally had the fire alarm switch within reach of her chair.

When someone died, she was the first to know since people called Stella to notify a priest, doctor, undertaker, sheriff, or relative.

When a new baby was born, she was the first to know.

In the 1950s there was no such thing as a direct call from one person to another. Instead, you dialed the operator and told her whom you wanted to reach. That is unless you happened to be on a party-line. In that case, you had to either wait for your neighbors to finish their conversation, or ask them to hang up so you could make your call. There was no hope of privacy in those instances, as your neighbor felt perfectly free to listen in on your conversations. The process began in the home when callers hand-cranked a phone on the wall, held a receiver against one ear, and spoke into a mouthpiece device that enabled them to talk to her.

People left messages with Aunt Stella similar to what you might leave on your voice mail system today: “Stella, if anyone tries to call me, please let them know that I’ll be in New Hampton until five o’clock. They can try again after that.”

Father Delay was the Mt. Carmel pastor for twenty-five years and, I think, considered her to be his private secretary. Many times I sat listening to Aunt Stella taking calls. She explained his whereabouts and when they could expect to reach him. You didn’t get to Pastor James without going through Operator Stella!

I was fascinated by what seemed to me amazing technology of the era. She wore a headset that was really cool, and sat at a control board that had plug-in wires similar to what you might see today on the back of a flat screen TV. The cords retracted back into the base when pulled out of the board. People would often place their calls, address her by name, and say something like, “Hi Stella. How’s it going today? Please call 42R3 for me.” (Or more often than not, just ask for McKone’s Station or Annie Corrigan because she knew everyone’s number by heart.)

Stella responded with a friendly, “Hello,” and asked how the garden was holding out in the dry weather or if hubby was getting over his cold. Only then did she plug one of those cords into a designated hole to make the connection. I’m sure it was a process that she could do with her eyes closed, but seemed like magic to me.

In a way I consider her to be a precursor to 911 calls, because there was no doubt what to do in case of an emergency: crank your phone and Stella would get you help.

I have especially fond memories of her on Christmas Eve because of a tradition that began when little brother Tom and I were very young. Mom, our older siblings, Uncle Carl, and Aunt Lois (visiting from the Twin Cities) would send the two of us down to wish her a Merry Christmas. It was a half block north and half block east of our house, so literally took us only about three minutes to get there. During our conversation there would come a call that she would answer and turn to us with an excited look on her face, “Get home right away boys! That was your mom and she said that Santa is at your house. You need to hurry if you’re going to catch him.”

We sprinted with wild enthusiasm toward home, but always “just barely” missed him racing up our chimney. That raised two concerns: 1.) It was very frustrating to come so close to seeing the old guy, but never quite be able to do so; and 2.) we didn’t have a fireplace in our Depot Street home. Instead it was a fuel oil burning stove that furnished heat for the house and changed the pipe’s color to a scary bright orange. It was beyond me how an overweight, bearded old man managed to wiggle his way up that skinny, scorching -hot pipe—and come through the ordeal unscathed.

Thank goodness he was able to leave toys despite those seemingly impossible obstacles. But it occurred to me more than once that Tom and I would have been able to witness it for ourselves had we not gone downtown to wish Merry Christmas to our beloved aunt.

All of my friends liked Aunt Stella and she liked them. I mostly remember her as being frail after developing Parkinson’s Disease at a relatively young age, probably in her mid-fifties. She was able to continue working for a long time despite her handicap and, to the best of my knowledge, was the only full-time telephone operator that Lawler ever had. It was during her later years in the position that phones were installed with which you could actually dial a number directly, without the services of an intermediary.

I understand that progress is progress, and do not wish to turn the clock backward. Cell phones are terrific. Being able to talk to and see my little brother Tom and his family, living in the Netherlands, on the Internet via Skype for free is great.

But there’s something just a little bit sad about not having a telephone operator wish you well on that new baby. Or congratulate you on the job-promotion. Or tell you how sorry she was that your grandma died.

Or let you know that Father Delay drove to Dubuque for the day, but will be back by noon tomorrow.

Christmas Carols in Lawler—1950s Style

The following is a story taken from ‘Depot Street Memories—The Lawler Stories’ (available now as an e-book on Kindle and Nook for $3.00). It has to do with a decision my buddy George Timlin and I had to make on the spur of the moment. I’ll let YOU decide if we made the right choice. Either way…the statute of limitations has run out!

Chapter Fifteen

“Bless Me Father, for I Have Sinned”

It was one of these December activities that became a ritual and great fun for participants. One evening, a week or two before Christmas, a dozen or so boys and girls would get together to go caroling. We walked around town and knocked randomly on doors. When the homeowner answered, we broke into Jingle Bells, or Silent Night, or Frosty the Snowman, or some other song of the season, in mostly off-key voices.

More often than not, the folks who came to the door listened and then gave us a buck or two for our efforts. Although it was never stated, the unwritten rule understood by all was that any monetary gains from our venture were passed on to Mt. Carmel Catholic Church. At the time Lawler was 95% Catholic, and most donors to our caroling gig considered it to be just one more offering to the parish.

On this particular winter night, however, we sang at one of the few homes in town not inhabited by a family of our faith. The occupant was a business owner and nice guy who gave George Timlin and me an admonition as he handed us (as self-designated treasurers) a couple of bucks, “Now I don’t want this to go to the church. Buy yourselves malts with it.”

Neither of us said anything about it until it was time to go home. Fortunately, we happened to be the only ones who heard the man’s request. So as our group dispersed for the evening and went our separate ways, George and I discussed our dilemma.

“Wudaya think?” I asked.

“I dunno. Wudayou think?”

“Well. He did say that he didn’t want it to go to the church.”

“Yeah, that’s what he said.”

“Wudaya think?” I asked again.

Neither one of us wanted to make the decision that might land our sorry butts in Hell, or Purgatory at the very least.

“Well, what about the other ten in the group? You can’t buy more than a couple malts at Martin’s Café for two bucks,” says he.

“Good point,” says I. “I guess we gotta’ do what he asks and turn the rest in to Father Delay. And I think it’s a good idea if we just keep this to ourselves.”

So that’s exactly what we did. Sometime that next week we handed in most of the money to Padre James, but withheld a small amount to honor the request of the contributor. Within a day or so after that, George and I plopped a buck apiece on Dint Martin’s counter and ordered up delicious chocolate malts for ourselves. If either of us felt guilty at the time, it was not a subject that we discussed.

I had conveniently almost forgotten about it until the following Sunday when I happened to be serving Mass. Father Delay was at the pulpit at the end of the service making announcements, one of which was, “And a special thanks to the Mt. Carmel Christmas carolers who raised $23 for the church with their singing.”

I would have made it okay if I had not looked down from the bench, where the altar boys sat during the sermon, and spied my co-conspirator with a big grin on his mug. He opened and closed his right fist five times.

I got it. Twenty-five. “That would be twenty-five dollars, Father Delay,” he seemed to be saying. “Not twenty-three dollars. Sheridan and I nabbed two bucks from God to down a couple malts at Martin’s Café!”

Somehow I managed to avoid the church giggles that normally come at such times. But I’ve never forgotten that grin on Timlin’s face.

I assume that the statute of limitations has run out after the five decades. But just to be on the safe side, maybe I ought to go to confession. And if I do, there’s one thing for certain, I’m not taking the rap by myself.

George Timlin downed one of those malts, so he’s gonna’ share in the blame.

I’m not sure that he can be forgiven if I make the confession on his behalf—but it’s worth a shot!

John Lawler: Our Community’s Founder—Born in Ireland!

 This information comes from “ancestry.com:”

 

ID: I599

  • Name: John LAWLER
  • Surname: Lawler
  • Given Name: John
  • Sex: M
  • Birth: 4 May 1832 in Carlow Co., Ireland
  • Death: 24 Feb 1891 in Prairie du Chien, Crawford Co., Wisconsin
  • _UID: 7BD7AE03E5C2504B9CC9F4909EFA434851E4
  • Note:

According to a bio, John was the eldest son of Mary Cantwell and Patrick Lawler, who came to the US in 1836 and lived in New Jersey. At 15 [abt 1847] John started working for a railroad company in Middletown, New York. Three years later [1850] he became a foreman at the Erie Railroad docks in Piermont. In 1856, he and his new wife left for Chicago, and a year later, settle in Prairie du Chien. { The Columbian Biographical Dictionary and Portrait Gallery of the Representative Men of the United States, Wisconsin Volume, 1895, by D. I. Nelke, <googlebooks>, 9 Aug 2012}
“While in Piermont [Rockland Co., New York], he had become acquainted with a young Irish girl, Catherine Dinon, whom he married in 1854.” {‘The Life of John Lawler’, by William B. Flaherty, Wisconsin Magazine of History, Dec 1940, <http://content.wisconsinhistory.org/cgi-bin/showfile.exe?CISOROOT=/wmh&CISOPTR=13742&CISOMODE=print>}
John Lawler and his wife Catherine (Dinan?) had at least 13 children:
John D. 1855-1896;
Thomas P. 1857-;
Daniel W. 1859- ;
Louis Dana 1860-1885;
Frances J. 1862-1890,
Joseph C. 1865-1920;
Mary J. 1866-1894 m. Charles J. L. Lantry;
Vincent 1868-1869;
Augustine 1870-1871;
Katherine Emily 1874-1945;
Clement A. 1874-1923;
Ellen ‘Nelly’ Caroline 1876-1933;
and Julia P. 1876-1876.
“Born in a small village in Carlow county, Ireland, May 4, 1832, he came to America in boyhood. At fifteen [1847?], he began working for a railroad company in upstate New York. Almost immediately his fine talents came to the knowledge of his employers, and three years later we find him foreman at the Erie railroad docks at Piermont, New York. Continuing to advance, before he was twenty-one he had secured a desirable position on the Canandaigua and Niagara Falls railroad at Tonawanda, New York. Moving to Chicago in the following year [1853?], he engaged in general railroad work. The summer of 1857 found him in the Wisconsin town of Prairie du Chien, an agent for the Milwaukee and Prairie du Chien railroad….” {‘The Life of John Lawler’, by William B. Flaherty, Wisconsin Magazine of History, Dec 1940, <http://content.wisconsinhistory.org/cgi-bin/showfile.exe?CISOROOT=/wmh&CISOPTR=13742&CISOMODE=print>}
“John Lawler 1832-1891: railroad executive, businessman, philanthropist, b. Carlow County, Ireland. He migrated to the U.S. with his parents in 1836. As a young man he worked for various railroads in the East and, after living briefly in Chicago and Milwaukee, settled in Prairie du Chien in 1857, where he was station agent for the Milwaukee and Mississippi Railroad. A short time later he became general agent for the line; in 1861, it was taken over by the Milwaukee and Prairie du Chien Railway Company. In 1863 he became vice-president of the newly organized McGregor Western Railway Company, and in 1867 both lines became part of the Milwaukee and St. Paul. Recognizing the importance of the Mississippi River to the transportation system, Lawler gained control of the river ferry in 1859, received a contract to ferry rail traffic in 1863, and remained in virtual control of all rail traffic between Prairie du Chien and McGregor until his death. In 1864, he became president of the Northwestern Packet Company, which merged with the Davidson line in 1866. To meet the problem of transferring railroad traffic between Prairie du Chien and McGregor, Lawler at first utilized railroad barges and later financed construction of a pontoon bridge, which was completed in 1874. He was a director of the Northwestern Life Insurance Company and a regent of the Univ. of Wisconsin. Active in many local philanthropies, he was particularly interested in furthering Catholic education. He was one of the founders and financiers of St. Mary’s College and Academy and St. John’s (now Campion) College in Prairie du Chien, and gave liberally to Georgetown Univ. and the Catholic Univ. of America.” {Dictionary of Wisconsin History, <http://www.wisconsinhistory.org/dictionary/>}
“In April 1857 the railroad came to Prairie du Chien and determined the economic and social life of the community for a century. That summer a young John Lawler came as the station agent…. The railroad built a hotel on the Upper Mississippi known first as the Railroad House and later renamed Dousman House. About that same time John Lawler bought much of Fort Crawford and donated a block to Catholic nuns for St. Mary’s Academy…. Lawler made his money transferring railroad cars and passengers across the river first by ferry. In 1874 he launched the pontoon railroad bridge that operated until 1955 and was dismantled in the early 1960s. Lawler Park was named after John Lawler, Prairie du Chien’s greatest philanthropist.” {Crawford Co., Wisconsin, <http://crawfordcounty-wi-us.org/>}
“The width of the Mississippi River posed a challenge for further expansion of the railorad into Iowa. This problem was temporarily solved by disassembling the trains at Prairie du Chien and ferrying them across the river to be put back on the tracks on the other side. A better solution was found by two men named Michael Spettel and John Lawler, who designed a permanent pontoon bridge to span the river in 1874. Lawler took most of the credit for this invention, and made a small fortune through its operation.” {Wikipedia, ‘Prairie du Chien, Wisconsin’, <http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Main_Page>}
“[Lawler, Chickasaw Co., Iowa] was named after John Lawler, of Prairie Du Chien, he being the active agent representing the railroad company when the town was laid out. “ {http://iagenweb.org/chickasaw/maps/mapsnames.htm}

John and Catherine are buried in St. Gabriel’s Catholic cemetery in Prairie du Chien, with a number of their children. There are photos of their memorial listing “John Lawler, May 4,1832—Feb 24, 1891, born in Cnty Carlow, Ireland”; and “His wife Catherine, Dec 23, 1833—Apr 1,1922, born in Cty Cork, Ire–died in Kansas City, Mo.” There is also a memorial for their children Vincent A., Augustine E., and Julia P. who died young; and another for their children Clement A., Ellen Caroline and Katherine Emily; with Mary and her husband Charles J. L. Lantry. {WIGenWeb, <http://www.rootsweb.com/~usgenweb/wi/cemetery/crawford.html>}
There is also a record made by WPA of graves for Louis D. 1860-1885; Francis J. 1862-1890; Joseph C. 1864-1920; Clement A. 1874-1923; S. D. Sturgis 1892-1949, son of John D.& Ella; and John D. 1855-1896. {St. Gabriel’s Cemetery, Crawford Co., Wisconsin, USGenWeb, <http://ftp.rootsweb.com/pub/usgenweb/wi/crawford/cemeteries/stgabriels.txt>}

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